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Give, Take, Give Back

Social & emotional

Give, Take, Give Back

A simple passing game sitting face-to-face: a little object goes from your hands to theirs and back again, with a cheerful “here you go!” to start and a playful “thank you!” when it returns. Keep the cycle going at your baby's pace, as long as they are having fun.

Age
0 to 18 months
Duration
5-10 min
Materials
One safe, small object
Supervision
Supervisé en continu
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Step by step

  1. Sit on the floor facing your baby with a safe object that is easy to grasp and too big to swallow (a teething ring, soft ball, or wooden spoon).
  2. Hand it over with a clear “Here you go!” and a big smile.
  3. Open your palm (“Can I have it?”) and wait without rushing them—a few seconds is often all it takes. If they keep it or drop it, just smile and try again with a different object.
  4. When they hand it back, welcome it with a warm, dramatic “Thank you!”—that fun reaction is what keeps them playing.
  5. Give it right back and restart the cycle, mixing up the pace and objects. Weave in “please” and “thank you” naturally, without ever demanding them.
  6. Once they get the hang of it, expand the game: add a third person (“give it to Daddy”), or hold out a basket to drop it into. Stop as soon as they lose interest—keep it light and fun.

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